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'FriendshipSerlinProducer: —thedifferenceinChinaandtheWestFriendship1.Chineseexceptfriendshipstobemorelasting.2.Differentfoundations(基础)forfriendship3.Westernsexpectfriendstobeindependent.(独立)4.Chineseusuallyexpectmorefromtheirfriends. Chineseexceptfriendshipstobemorelasting.ForChineseatruefriendshipendures（持续）throughout（所有方面）lifechanges.Chinesearefriendseveniftheyhaven’tspokenfor20years.Ifyousharedsomethingatonetime,thenallyourlifeyouarefriends.Thisisthebestofguanxi(关系),theWideWebthatconnectsChinesethroughtimeandspace.So,wecansayChineseinventedtheInternetlongbeforeBillGateswasborn.InNorthAmerica,eventherelationshipinwhichpeoplefeelcloseandtelleachotherpersonalproblemsmaynotsurvivelifechangessuchasmovingtoanothercity,graduationfromauniversityormarriage.Ifthepeopledonotseeeachotherregularly,therelationshipislikelytodie. Differentfoundationsforfriendships.Chinesefriendsshare“thingsincommon”:atask,aclass,thehometown.Friendshipsareformed（形成）bypeoplewhoworkorgotoschooltogether.Youmayormaynotliketheperson,butifheorshecandosomethingforyoubecauseofhisposition（地位）orjob,youcanbefriends.ButinNorthAmerica,businessandfriendshiparekeptseparate（各自的）.Thefriendshipsareusuallytied（约束）tospecific（特定的）activities.Apersonmayhaveworkfriendsandleisure(休闲时)activityfriends.Alsofriendstendtohavesimilarfinancialcircumstances（经济状况）,becausefriendshipintheWestisbasedonequality. Westernsexpectfriendstobeindependent.Why?It’sbecausetheirfriendshipismostlyamatterof（大约）providingemotionalsupport（精神支持）andspendingtimetogether,sotheydonotfeelcomfortableinarelationshipinwhichonepersonisgivingmoreandtheotherisdependent（依赖的）onwhatisgiving.Awesternerwillrespondto（对…作出回应）afriend’stroublebyasking“Whatdoyouwanttodo?”Theideaistohelpthefriendtothinkouttheproblemanddiscoverthesolution（解决方法）heorshereallywantsandthentosupportthesolution. Chinesefriendsgiveeachothermoreconcrete（实际的）help.AChinesewillusepersonalconnectionstohelpafriendgetsomethinghardtoobtain（得到）.Theygiveeachothermoneyandmighthelpeachotheroutfinancially（经济上overalongtime Chineseusuallyexpectmorefromtheirfriends.IntheWest,youcancertainlyaskafriendtodosomethingwithyou,butyourecognize（承认）thatyourfriendmaysayno,ifheorshegivesyouasreason.Youwouldnotexpectafriendtodrop（丢弃）everythingtorespond（回应）toanon-urgent（非迫切的）needsuchasshopping.Norwouldyouexpectafriendtorecognizeandrespondtoyourwisheswithoutstatingthem.AfriendinChinaissomeonewhooffers（主动提出）helpwithoutwaitingtobeasked.Therearefewlimitstowhatyoucanexpectfromafriend.Youcanfeelfreetotellyourfriendwhatheorshecanorshoulddoorhelporpleaseyou Friendship—thepopularAmericansitcom,FRIENDS RachelGreenMonicaGellerPhoebeBuffayJoeyTribbianiChandlerBingRossGeller .FriendsisanAmericansitcomwhichpremieredonNBConSeptember22,1994.TheseriesrevolvesaroundagroupoffriendsintheareaofManhattan,NewYorkCity,whooccasionallylivetogetherandsharelivingexpenses.ThefriendshipbetweenthemarestrongandtouchingTheGreenwichVillagebuildingusedasthefriends"apartmentblockinestablishingshotsTheCentralPerk 老友记是美国的情景喜剧首演于NBC于1994年9月22日，这是美国情景喜剧系列围绕着一群朋友在纽约曼哈顿市人偶尔住在一起并共享生活开支。他们之间的友谊牢固又感人 Goodfriendsarelikestars.Youdon’talwaysseethem,butyouknowtheyarealwaysthere.好朋友就像星星。你不经常看见他们，但你知道他们都在那里 thankyou'